Our Members

My name is Tarsha Howell, and I am deeply sorry for your loss. I, too, know the pain of losing a child. March 19th, 2021, my son, Justin J Shider, 30 years old at the time passed away from Accidental Ethanol Intoxication. An unexpected, yet senseless death. The painful and difficult journey I began exceeded anything I could have imagined

My name is Tarsha Howell, and I am deeply sorry for your loss. I, too, know the pain of losing a child. March 19th, 2021, my son, Justin J Shider, 30 years old at the time passed away from Accidental Ethanol Intoxication. An unexpected, yet senseless death. The painful and difficult journey I began exceeded anything I could have imagined. Only with God, dedication to my own grief journey, and the love and support of friends was I able to make it through each day.

To begin my own healing on this new journey B-I-R-T-H the acronym for “Beginning Inner Restoration Through Healing” was born. This is a non-profit organization designed to help mothers live and not just exist after the loss of a child.

Christopher Shider is a Navy veteran and graduate of The College of Charleston, with a degree in Business. Christopher is the founder of the non-profit organization called Father Figure. Father Figure provides mentorship and guidance to youth without active father's in their lives. As a hoard member, Mr. Shider brings his business expert

Christopher Shider is a Navy veteran and graduate of The College of Charleston, with a degree in Business. Christopher is the founder of the non-profit organization called Father Figure. Father Figure provides mentorship and guidance to youth without active father's in their lives. As a hoard member, Mr. Shider brings his business expertise and understanding of grief. Mr. Shider loss his best friend and brother March 19th, 2021. The journey as a sibling has been challenging, but with God I am surviving.

My name is ...Pamela Alfred’s journey as a passionate advocate against gun violence began with a tragic event that forever altered her life. In 2022, she experienced the heartbreaking loss of her youngest son due to gun violence. This devastating event ignited a fierce determination within her to take a stand against the pervasive issue.

My name is ...Pamela Alfred’s journey as a passionate advocate against gun violence began with a tragic event that forever altered her life. In 2022, she experienced the heartbreaking loss of her youngest son due to gun violence. This devastating event ignited a fierce determination within her to take a stand against the pervasive issue. Since then, Pamela has emerged as a sought­ after panelist and speaker, lending her voice and personal experience to local groups dedicated to educating the community about the devastating impact of gun violence.

With unwavering dedication, Pamela now uses her platform to raise awareness and promote meaningful change. Her compelling presence and heartfelt messages resonate with audiences as she shares her personal story and advocates with local organizations add· ng her valued voice in the fight to prevent gun violence as she pas ionately works towards creating safer communities and a future where uch tragedies are prevented.

Contact
https://facebook.compam.dorseyalfred/

Bridget M. Baker is a graduate of Campbell University with a bachelor of science degree in Child Development. Her passions includes physical fitness, mental health awareness, traveling, and spending time with her family.

 Married for over twenty years, Bridget has been a proud military spouse and now supports her husband in his civilian fe

Bridget M. Baker is a graduate of Campbell University with a bachelor of science degree in Child Development. Her passions includes physical fitness, mental health awareness, traveling, and spending time with her family.

 Married for over twenty years, Bridget has been a proud military spouse and now supports her husband in his civilian federal career. Parent of two and a recent “Bebe” to her grandson, she has embraced a life of flexibility and resilience. 

 In March 2020 as the world was bracing for a pandemic her father suddenly passed. This was an extremely isolating experience. 

 Within a month after her dad’s passing Bridget started weekly virtual therapy sessions. While not new to therapy, grieving during a global pandemic was uncharted territory. Maintaining and improving her mental health became the primary goal for Bridget. She continued her sessions and increased her knowledge of coping strategies. Finally starting to find her footing, Bridget faced another passing, her older sister passed of breast cancer in August of 2023, after enduring a seven year journey. Remembering some of her sister’s last words “She fought the best battle she could,”didn’t seem to ease the pain. Bridget determined to grieve in a healthier way, decided to trust in God and use the coping mechanisms she had learned to heal. 

 Living a military connected life, Bridget and her family recently relocated to Georgia. Bridget continues to advocate for children, prioritize her mental health and cherish life.