Support Grieving Mothers Today

 Tarsha Howell is a dedicated life coach, advocate, and mother of three whose life’s work is centered on helping others heal with purpose. With a heart for service and a deep understanding of grief, she has committed herself to walking alongside women as they navigate some of life’s most difficult moments.

After experiencing the devastating loss of her son, Tarsha was faced with a journey that challenged her emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Rather than allowing that pain to define her, she chose to transform it into purpose. Through her own healing, she discovered the importance of faith, intentional growth, and having a strong support system.

As a life coach, Tarsha blends her personal experiences with practical guidance, creating a compassionate and empowering approach to healing. She believes that while grief never fully disappears, it can evolve, and with the right support, life can still hold meaning, joy, and fulfillment.

In her role as founder of B.I.R.T.H. (Beginning Inner Restoration Through Healing), Tarsha leads with authenticity, empathy, and strength. Her mission is simple but powerful: to ensure that no mother feels alone in her grief, and to help women move from merely existing to truly living again.

Mr. Christopher Shider serves as a dedicated board member of B.I.R.T.H., bringing valuable business expertise and a strong commitment to mentorship. Through his involvement with Father Figure, he supports initiatives that provide guidance and positive influence to youth growing up without active fathers in their lives.

His passion for service is deeply rooted in personal experience. Following the loss of his brother and best friend on March 19, 2021, Mr. Shider has navigated a challenging journey through grief. Guided by faith, he continues to persevere with strength and resilience, often expressing, “With God, I am surviving.”

Mr. Shider’s perspective, shaped by both professional knowledge and personal growth, allows him to connect meaningfully with others and contribute to the mission of empowering and uplifting the community.

Pamela Alfred's journey as a passionate advocate against gun violence began with a tragic event that forever altered her life. In 2022, she experienced the heartbreaking loss of her youngest son due to gun violence. This devastating event ignited a fierce determination within her to take a stand against the pervasive issue. 

Since then, Pamela has emerged as a sought after panelist and speaker, leading her voice and personal experience to local groups dedicated to eucating the community about the devaastating impact of gun violence.

With unwavering dedication, Pamela now uses her platform to raise awareness and promote meaningful change. her compelling presence and heartfelt messages resonate with audiences as she shares her personal story.

Bridget's journey...

 Her world shifted when she experienced a profound personal loss that left her struggling to cope. The pain was unfamiliar and overwhelming, forcing her to confront emotions she had long buried. Determined not to let grief consume her, Bridget made the difficult decision to seek help. Through counseling, she began to unpack her trauma, slowly learning how to navigate her emotions and rebuild her sense of self. 

She continued her sessions and increased her knowledge of coping strategies. Finally starting to find her footing, Bridget faced another passing, her older sister passed of breast cancer in August of 2023, after enduring a seven year journey.

Remembering some of her sister's last words, "She fought the best battle she could, " didn't seem to ease the pain. Bridget determined to grieve in a healthier way, decided to trust in God and use the coping mechanisms she had learned to heal. 

Living a military connected life, Bridget and her family recently relocated to Georgia. Bridget continues to advocate for children, prioritize her mental health and cherish life.